Hello Everyone. I have been on the site for a little while now and have met some interesting people. It has been fun and I have learned a lot and now it is time to edit my profile to narrow down what I am looking for in other people. To start with, I am married and my wife and I are in an open, poly relationship. For us, this means we build friendships and relationships with others. All parties involved will know what goes on and must consent to the relationships, so those cheating on their husbands, wives, girlfriends, or boyfriends should just keep looking. I don't mind if you are attached somewhere as long as your partner knows and consents to what is going on. Sex is a part of these relationships (we wouldn't be on this site if it wasn't) but friendship is definitely a bigger part of it. We need to be able to hold a conversation during lunch outings or share some common interests so that it is more than just play time between the sheets. What's in your mind is more important than what is in your pants, though getting to know both is part of the fun. I am bisexual and would like to explore relationships with both men and women. I play responsibly and respectfully, so unprotected sex is not an option unless there is some trust built and there are tests proving cleanliness. This is to protect both myself and others that I play with. You can look in the questionnaire for my stats and feel free to message me on IM if I am on, or a private message to ask me any question you would like. I try to respond to everyone unless you are just creepy, so please avoid that :) Any institutions using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You do NOT have my permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications.

My Ideal Person I am looking for someone who I can be friends with and have a relationship along side the sexual stuff. Someone who can converse fluently during lunch and maybe share some of my interests. I very much enjoy playing video games, being outdoors, and a bit of sports (hockey and soccer mostly). Having these interests gives us more to talk about, but is not necessary as long as we can find some kind of ground to help build a relationship on.

I would like someone who understands the poly lifestyle and realizes that this isn't about replacing the relationship I already have with another relationship, but rather complimenting it. The same applies in reverse. I do not want to replace your relationship if you are attached, but rather compliment it with a friendship.

I am not perfect physically, nor do I need you to be either. I don't care what race you are, if you are male/female/transgender/anything else, or what you look like. I care more about what kind of person you are and what is in your head. Be a kind and caring person and we will get along just fine.

Do not be afraid to ask me anything. Nothing is taboo in my head and I don't mind answering questions.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Voyeurism, Blindfolds

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
Not yet, but I definitely want to try it.

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