I lead a professional life full of goals and accomplishments I make for myself. I find my entertainment in learning.....non-fiction on compelling topics and documentaries. I continue a age formed habit of strumming an acoustic.....just to hear the sound it makes. I am drug and disease free and tested regularly....well....for the diseases...not the drugs. I am a very light to non existent drinker (just doesn't do much for me). But.....for me....420 is an occasional thing. I am a Pisces, empathic, heavy on light energy...and just an intriguing smattering of the dark kind, a torrid and tactile sensualist, nurturing, supportive. Yeah...me. I am a monogamist. While I might not be ultimately looking for the happily ever after, I am open to it. If it were to grow into that. I am friends first....and I only seek one. To be clear.....while I might date multiples to get to know them once I turn into anything deeper with another soul, regardless of how casual or serious, that is the soul I am with intimately. It is what works for me. I am kinky; constantly evolving and exploring....default Dominant, but open to more of a switch dynamic as well. Incredibly tactile...touch is paramount with me. As a lover I am selfless....really. It has almost been to a point with some past lovers where I could feel their energy say "this is so odd....no man is this selfless". But, it is how I am built. I honestly need to be slowed down to enjoy receiving pleasure.....something I am learning better on how to do. So.....if attention to your pleasure is paramount....you might want to know me. I listen to the Universe and learn the less that are there to be taught. This keeps me and my soul grounded and centered. Just come converse and let's see how we do.....I can assure none of the straight up creepy vibe that is common from males online. \\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\*"Love does not dominate, it cultivates." Johann Wolfgang van Goethe *

My Ideal Person I am not seeking for anything too serious right now. I do seek connection. That extra something between two souls that just makes for extra fire. I am not at a point where I am expecting too much from that connection. I will be open if the mutuality comes.....but it is not a set goal.

That said....I am monogamous. And a little discerning. If I write you it will not be "sup".....and it will not be the same message every other woman is getting. It will be specific and come from some thought of what you had to say in your profile. If you do see a message from me....give it a chance. I am not trying to just "get it in"...but to see if a rapport and mutuality develops enough to warrant a casual, public meeting (coffee/tea anyone?). I mean....that is why we are here, no?

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Fisting, Massage, Ropey Rope Rope Rope!

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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