I want a special friend. I like men that are dominant but not domineering. I am mostly normal but also kinky. I am financially secure, well educated and responsible. Looking for a nearby safe sane healthy man for casual ltr and maybe more. A travel and/or activity buddy would be great too but mostly just looking for someone I can party with (nothing too crazy), have good conversations and possibly very sexy times with. :) I am not into quick hookups for health reasons. I respect privacy but expect honesty. We must be candid about sex and relationships. Very open-minded. Looking for someone I can enjoy conversation and have fun with as much as anything else. The longer we are together, the more committed and loyal I become. I can be submissive but also very independent and kinda wild. Sometimes I like to take charge. I work and play hard. I stay busy cuz life is short but I make lots of room for fun. I am very active and outgoing and I easily adapt to different social environments and blend in when I want to.

My Ideal Person I like honest, self-assured, secure, safe, healthy, sane, professional mature men, about my age (give or take ten years). You must have a full-time job, be healthy and responsible. I like people that are humane, decent and intelligent and I'm most compatible with assertive, self-secure men that are honest about themselves.