I prefer we wine and dine before we 69. Meaning get to know me do not request I come over and satisfy your needs as your introductory message. I do not often look at who has flirted or commented on my photos. If you want my attention, send me a message. Have a picture posted or provide something. I am not attracted to grey silhouettes. Not interested in being your second choice or side piece while you cheat on your wife. Married men, move it along... Poly, ENM, or open relationship couples, feel free to contact me. I cannot respond to IM when you are offline. Wait until I can or stop messaging. Hygiene is uber important. Men, if your nails are dirty and disgusting in your dick holding photo, those hands will not be touching me. If the person you are with is not satisfying you sexually and concerned about your happiness, why are you still there? If the size of your dick is your whole personality, I do not want it. If you repeatedly message me and I am not responding, that is or was your answer. A perfect evening... drinks, dinner & debauchery.

My Ideal Person Switch or submissive partner that wants to help fulfill my every need, want, and desire. In turn yours will be met and explored in any way you would like. Tattoos, piercings, and a fit defined physique are a few visual turn ons. Intelligence, humor, charm, and wit are a few mental turn ons.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Threesomes, Food Play, Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Blindfolds, Leather, Latex, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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