I've reached the point where simple, uncomplicated sex is all I need and all I want. When I go out, usually some friends and I hang out together and laugh for a few hours. Commitment-wise, I just want a secret no-strings fling that gives us both what we're missing. For me a perfect date is a bottle of wine and talking 'til dawn. For me a perfect Friday night is relaxing at home. When I'm at home alone, it's time to relax with good wine and a good book. I'm not changing my life, I'm just trying to make it more interesting. I look forward to seeing how the online dating world works. If you contact me please be discreet. I'll do the same for you.