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atop4fun 66 / M
"Discreet for casual fun ( Standard members can NOW contact me 2/16/22)"
Santa Cruz, California, United States
 
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atop4fun 66/M
Santa Cruz, California
What do you have to lose......let's explore the possibilities
Introduction
I'm an attractive easy going guy looking for discreet "no strings attached" sexual fun. I'm healthy in all respects, confident, patient, and considerate of my bed-partner's desires and limits. I try to stay in shape by being physically active and enjoying outdoor exercise. I have a relatively trim/average body type and a 32" waist. I have long silver hair, mustache, smooth chest, trimmed down below but not shaved, 100 % healthy, and clean. Family obligations restrict my availability on early mornings and late nights, and I usually require some advanced notice for meeting. It is rare for a last minute get-together to work for me. I am not interested in outdoor public sex or car sex, I like to feel safe and to be comfortable. I would enjoy a variety of sexual activities and I don't have any sexual "musts" in order to have a good time. In terms of M/M sex, I enjoy a variety of activities and I am versatile for oral.... but I am strictly a top for ass play and anal sex. No exceptions on that....I'm not versatile at all when it comes to anal sex. I'm easily pleased, and easy going about what does (or doesn't) happen in the bedroom. I’m confident but not “pushy”, and I often like to take the lead. . I enjoy knowing that my bed-partner is having a good time. Sometimes I like my bed-partner to just lay back and allow me to pleasure him/her. Introducing a “newbie” to M/M pleasures is one of my favorite things to do. Discretion is expected and assured. More info below...please read "my ideal person" before responding. I know that I'm not everyone's "type", but those that find me appealing should definitely send me a message. I like cock just fine, but cock pics alone are not that interesting to me. If that is all you want to share, I am going to be disappointed. I am not able to host.... Motel play is possible.....I'm happy to share the cost of a room. WARNING: Any institutions or individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You DO NOT have permission to use any of our profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of our privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to this or you may copy and paste this one.

My Ideal Person I'm hoping to meet an in-shape guy ( preferably 18- 60) for occasional discreet fun. Afternoon/early evening availability would be ideal, but I have a somewhat flexible schedule. Your endowment, level of M/M experience, and relationship status is NOT important to me, but you should be healthy and reliable when making a commitment to meet. A big cock does not impress me, but a nice ass will get my attention every time. An interest in being the passive partner for light ass play/anal sex would be ideal but is not absolutely necessary. I have a preference for guys that are athletically built and trim, or who are at least height/weight proportionate. Please respond with descriptive info about yourself, your availability, sexual interests, and your location in your first message. Let's explore the possibilities together.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
No particular place

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Spanking, Mutual Masturbation, Massage, doctor/patient

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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Information
  • 66 / male
  • Santa Cruz, California, United States
Sexual Orientation:
Bi-sexual
Looking For:  Men or Couples (man/woman)
Birthdate: May 10, 1957
Relocate?: No
Marital Status: Married
Height: 5 ft 6 in / 167-170 cm
Body Type: Average
Smoking: I'm a non-smoker
Drinking: I don't drink at all
Drugs: I don't use drugs
Education: Prefer not to say
Occupation: retired
Race: Caucasian
Religion: Agnostic
Have Children: Yes. We do not live together.
Want Children: Happy with what I have
Speaks: English
Hair Color: Silver
Eye Color: Inconsistent/Variable
Glasses or Contacts: None
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