Well hello there, Please read before messaging me ... Thanks {=} I like to believe that I am a fairly successful individual, I have a decent job that allows me the freedom to do the things I enjoy. I am financial stable in the aspect that I can fully support myself and my family. I enjoy going places and discovering new things about myself and those I am with. I do however lack self-confidence and can come off extremely shy when it comes to the romantic aspect of my life. Hence the reaing for this site. I am not on here to drive back home at 3 am covered in someone's juices. I am not looking for commitment or to find my one true love. But what I am looking for is someone who is interested in a sexual partner who they are able to have a conversation with and enjoy each's company in and out of the bedroom.

My Ideal Person This is a tricky question because I don't really have and ideal person, I have been attracted to all sorts of people. But there are a few things to help you decide if we would be a good match. First you must like larger women, due to my lack in self-confidence I need to know that you will respect my body. Second please have common sense and please be able to hold a conversation that doesn't always have to involve where I would like you to place your penis. My biggest turn on in a sexual partner is authority in and out of the bedroom. Be that with your personality, career choice ( I have a thing for cops and military), or just over lifestyle.

Also while age isn't a big issue for me I do have to say If you are over the age 45 there probably isn't much of a chance we would hit it off. Unless your Harrison Ford or Mike Ness.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Spanking, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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