Two different, but not incompatible, hopes bring me back here. First, I would like to meet new individuals. I am interested in those who are curious, like me, and who want to find a friend to support and encourage ideas and fantasies. This first item is not about sex so much as about a connection. That ineffable and inarticulate spark that happens between two people, and what direction it takes is unpredictable. I have an amazing primary partner already, a kinky and fantasy-fulfilling individual, and both of us enjoy expanding our circles of friends and lovers. Second, and I hope the overlapping desires and interests are apparent to you, dear reader, I very much enjoy meeting couples. Group dynamics and interactions are among the most memorable and powerful experiences we can have, and I very much enjoy both introducing new couples to the experience of a 3rd per joining them, and indulging with couples who are used to these pleasures. Among my multiple interests are photography, literature, film, some sports, good coffee and creative drinks. Of these, photography is perhaps the most relaxing and creative of my hobbies at the moment. Mostly I enjoy wandering around cities and countrysides, although I am very slowly starting to learn to include humans in my shots. I would enjoy hearing from anyone with an interest in photography, as I still have much to learn. Much of my time, by necessity, is taken up with the immense amount of work I do in the arts. I love my job dearly, yet oftentimes it leads to strange hours and terribly busy weeks. Yet it's hard for me to imagine a 9-5 job as being at all fulfilling or engaging. At any rate, I find conversations and the occasional meeting from this site to be a delightful change of pace, an engaging distraction, the many piles of pages.

My Ideal Person An open and intelligent individual who enjoys exploring multiple aspects of our sexuality. It is not about experience, but rather curiosity. I seek an eagerness to delve into the erotic, and a mind that can appreciate and discuss such encounters. A sense of humor, of fun and whimsy, is important as well. I like to laugh and be creative, and friends and partners should as well.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Modest Mouse, Rolling Stones, Muddy Waters, Pearl Jam,
Liz Phair, Feist, Band of Horses

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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