We are an incredibly social couple with no ren, just dogs. We love wine tours, dinners (I am an amazing cook and wine fanatic), and the odd ocasional bar night is in the works as she loves to dance. We are game for most anything, but please no penis pictures. More picture are available through request as I am a bit of a photoholic. Excite us and make us curious is the way to our .... hearts? Quick up date: After 10 years together, we have realized that we both have a couple fantasies that we cannot fulfill together. She wants to be a dom, and is currently talking to a sub, but always willing to chat to new subs. He is interested in having someone to play with. Not looking for a poly relationship, but just a raw sexual connection that we can both explore. Partners for either him or her have to be vetted through the other half, and nothing is hidden If you are a standard member, send us a wink and we will respond. Single males, unless you are a sub, and willing to meet hubby first, please dont bother.

My Ideal Person Discretion is our middle name. We are both professionals in the community and prefer to not broadcast our life style. I am a competitive triathlete, and my wife is athletic. We are looking for couples or single woman with similar interests. I love to cook and she loves to eat, and we are both wine snobs (lol) . We love to vary from camping in a tent, to spending a night on a hotel (not often, but have done it). Our biggest excitement is exploring the unknown. We are both advanced scuba divers and love to explore the darkness, wink wink.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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