First off, I'm a married woman that is separated and just looking for reoccurring non committed fun. I'm solely looking for a distraction from everyday life by having fun and lots of it. I've been off and on this site for some time. So I know what I want, don't want, what works and doesn't work. My Looks: I’m a short Latina, 5’2, long brown hair (I change it on occasion so it can be brown, black, or red) with light brown eyes. I’m a full-figured gal (small BBW), I have a big chest and bottom but am still proportionate and curvy. I have never received a single complaint about my body, as you read my testimonies, men rather enjoy it. But please be sure you understand I am not a stick or super athletic so if your profile says you prefer that and you send me an email I will not respond with expectation that I am not your type.

My Ideal Person So here’s the thing, I may be wasting my time writing this because let's face it. No one really reads these. But I'm looking for the holy grail of sex sites - I’m looking for someone that wants to meet on a frequent bases (I'm shooting for weekly or every other week) for fun both in and out of the bedroom. Doesn’t have to be each time, I’m completely game for meeting just for some bedroom fun. But, I also want the occasional night out for an escape of day to day life. Sounds pretty simple right?

As you can see from my testimonies, when I lived in Chicago I had a lot of fun. But sadly I've found lately all I have been coming across are those that don't fit my needs (mutual needs) or habitual liars. Orlando area...can you prove to me there are some good ones left? I assure you if you put in the time and effort it's all very much worth it.

I consider myself a pretty open mind person but there are a few prerequisites that unfortunately can’t be over looked; first, is honesty, I will always be honest and sometimes to the point of brutal honesty. I hold honesty over cowardliness any day. If you tell me you're interested but busy...yet I see you on the site all day everyday, that's what we call a liar. With that said I’m only looking for 1 or 2 people on a regular basis which means if you’re a “serial” dater or likes Baskin and Robbin’s motto as your monthly dating calendar then we are probably not going mesh well. I understand not everyone is into limiting partners on a sex site it’s just a personal preference for my sexual responsibility. In addition, the more I see someone the more comfortable I get and trust me the comfortable I get the more wild I get with that person. Second, having somewhere to have fun, I cannot host and if you cannot, we will not work out, no exceptions. Third, is the time to have fun, I have a busy schedule as I expect others to as well. I have family, friends and work just like expect everyone else. I work during the day and if I have any free time it will be on nights and weekends. If you are only available in the day then we won’t work out. If you don’t have the time to get together at least at many times then we really shouldn’t waste each other’s time. Fourth and I promise last, distance is a factor, sadly, due to time constraints and realistic expectations it won’t work for long distances meaning more then 30-40 minutes away.

As for the physical ideal:
Age 35-50 (possibly open to other ages) weight and height are open as long as the man is taller than me and is physical enough shape to keep up in the bedroom. Race is open as well but I do have a preference to Caucasian men, especially those with goatee and glasses.

Here is how I see the chain of events; you send me an email of interest or vice versa, if both parties are interested we chat to confirm that we are looking for the same thing and are compatible (chat to me is 1-2 emails or talking on messenger). We set up a public meet for safety and easy testing for chemistry. Everything goes well, we decide what to do from there which may or may not include fooling around the first time we meet. If all is not well we say thanks for time and go our separate ways no harm no foul.

I understand the courtesy of emailing someone even if you aren’t interest but being a woman in a site of a ratio of 100 to 1, I get too many emails and couldn’t quite dedicate the time to email everyone back. So please don’t take it personal if I don’t get back to you quickly.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A rollercoaster, The beach, The middle of a park, An airplane, A dark back alley, A movie theatre, The stands at a sporting event, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, A store dressing room, An elevator, A hotel room, Anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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