Time for an update - divorce finally pending! Certainly a weight off my shoulders. I'm looking for some fun with like minded women. I’m open to couples as well where it’s all about pleasing her. I'm not in a place where a long term relationship is in the cards, but a relationship can be defined in many ways. Just be understanding of my situation and take it for what it's worth. I love people who have something to say and want to be heard...after years of never feeling heard I'll be happy to enjoy some conversation!