a single guy who loves every aspect of the lifestyle, from the activities, the socializing, the openness and ease to be myself, and of course the like minded people that make this life so great. im a very laid back passive guy that knows when to take the lead when needed. i was a marine for 14 years and an exquisite dancer (country, grinding, sensual).I enjoy the outdoors (hippy hollow, live oak, nudist beaches), clubs (swinger, nudist, dance), house parties (lifestyle ones). i was the manager at allure and then players for a while which allowed me the benefit to observe the lifestyle from within but as a third party. it was intriguing to meet the different level of swingers, from the full time swingers, to the casual ones to the 1st timers and seeing all the different levels of boundaries there is and how some come to find those boundaries. i have been know as an liai to the lifestyle for new couples being i have oriented quite a few with helping them get comfortable, understand what to expect, and to figure out what their boundaries were. fortunately for me at times those boundaries included me. i absolutely love the social aspect of the lifestyle. it is an absolute joy to get to know people and to see what chemistry is there. my closest friends in my life are all swingers and find it hard to really get along with vanilla's. we are so spoiled. it is also nice at times to not even know each others names and just use each other for complete physical satisfaction. i have had the luxury of experiencing this lifestyle as a single and as a couple and in a few different states. i absolutely love my life and enjoy it to the fullest.