We have been talking about this for a while. Mostly me but she is coming around to the idea of soft swap. She has talked about being with a woman and I believe in the moment she would go for it. When she decides she is ready it will be slow going. We are looking for a couple that we could hang out with for dinner, drinks, back yard BBQ and possibly some adult fun. We are your average next door neighbor. We are both DDF, safe, sane, happily married, and must be very discreet.