Reality with age has now hit and my wife is no longer interested in meeting others.. So, what's a guy to do? I am somewhat bi and don't want to stop the idea of ever meeting with someone. So, this ad now will reflect my interest. I would like to find a guy in a similar situation, perhaps married or divorced, who enjoys the occasional get together with another guy for hand and oral (no anal).. If there is a married couple out there seeking a normal drug free, nice, easy going guy well I would be open to communicating with you too! But, my guess is if there will ever be any success now it will be with a similar guy who likes the excitement of meeting someone similar. It will be necessary to communicate and I won't just run out and meet anyone otherwise. Also, equally important I cannot host.

My Ideal Person Ok, in the ideal world; a well-endowed, easy going and nice guy. He should be friendly, proud of having a real big cock, enjoys the idea of sharing it, is discreet and quiet in public but confident and likes to show it-off in private. Honesty, a willingness to communicate before meeting, and actual past experience with are all appreciated traits. But, being real well-endowed is not a requirement this part of the profile says "ideal." Someone who is normal, likes doing oral on me, hey that sounds good too

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Our ultimate sexual fantasy is to meet with a John Holmes sized guy who is confident, acts real masculine, is somewhat takes charge and wants his cock to be treated like a big toy that he is sharing with us both. The guy also is a show-off regarding his size and enjoys the admiration and attention. In fact, that is part of his motivation and wanting to be with a husband and wife, rather than a woman alone.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Voyeurism

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Ability to be discreet, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
If John Holmes was still alive, didn't have HIV, and wasn't apparently a jerk, it would have been a fantasy person we would have been curious to meet and experience.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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