Whether we are talking straight up sex, or a relationship – both of which I am interested in exploring with new folks – there are times that I like to be in charge, sometimes I like you to be in charge – but most times I like it to be a mutual thing – give, and take, if you get my drift… So Who am I? That's the 64 million dollar question isn't it? In a nutshell, I am a 41 year old, well traveled and read cat who is a digital artist and a writer and looking to start a new chapter in this wild ride we call life. I Love to write and paint. Who knows? Perhaps You'll be my next subject... I like to think of myself as a dry wit, sensitive and caring – perhaps generous to a fault, and quite a bit more. But then, that's for you to decide, isn't it? …if I tell you too much doesn't that ruin the fun of getting to know a new friend? Finally, (all of which can be subject to change of course, depending on the individual(s in question of course... ;-):

My Ideal Person Without getting too verbose – or coming off like I'm writing a want ad here – this is what I would want if You were “My Girl” (the odds are long, I know, but here goes)……

I am looking for a TS/TG - Primarily, but it always depends....
You are a Lady, but You can also be a nasty, dirty girl –
and You'd my enjoy being your Slut.
You like the finer things in this world, but don't need them to be happy.
You'd be open-minded and willing to try new things (or people).
You're not afraid to get your hands dirty.
You'd like to go out, but not mind staying in sometimes.
You'd be comfortable with yourself and your body, and love flaunting it.
You'd be strong as Hell, but gentle as summer rains.

Most importantly, You'd also be Sassy enough to call me on my shite – but also be able to tolerate / support my manic moods of art & writing. :: chuckle :: ...sound like I’m asking too much? Let me know.

Lastly, I am mildly disabled, but that shouldn't be an issue – should it? Waiting to hear from you…

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
There are times in sex that I like to be in charge, mostly
I like it to be mutual – or else your in charge. My ultimate
fantasy is for those beautiful woman who enjoy that…
<br><br>
You, and three of your girlfriends stop by the house and
pick me up to go for a ride. You're in the driver's
seat, and the three of them are in the back. I start to get
in the car but you just shake your head and tell me to take
off my shirt and get in the back with your friends. <br><br>
At first, we are all just chatting as you head towards the
highway – occasionally one of your friends rubs my cock
through my pants but that's it. <br><br>
And then you pull out on the freeway… <br><br>
You tell me to climb up between the front seats until I'm
practically lying on the center console unbutton your
jeans, and tell me to suck on you long, deep, and slow. At the same time, I can feel that my pants are being pulled
down, off, and then one grabs an ankle and pins it against
the car door, another hand does the same to my other ankle
– and now I'm spread wide open and your friend in the
middle whose lap I was just sitting on starts to fuck me –
deep. <br><br>
We drive for hours like that not caring who sees us – me
sucking you, your friends taking turns with me… <br><br>
Eventually one of you cums and that starts a chain reaction
until four of have me presents in my willing holes, and then
the girls in the back slowly jerk me off while you drive back
to my place. <br><br>
…just writing that gives me a raging erection – interested?

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, A dark back alley, A movie theatre, A remote wilderness spot, A store dressing room, An elevator

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Urolagnia (Water Sports/Urine), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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