Single male, widowed, interested in meeting mature single women as a "friend with benefits". I am currently in a relationship that I do not want to change, but the sexual aspects of the relationship are lacking. I am a very oral per and that, along with frequency, are missing. I'm looking for an occasional discreet get together for mutual pleasure. I would also consider meeting with mature couples to join them in a 3-some of fun and mutual pleasure. I am friendly, very clean, easy-going, soft-spoken, educated, and totally discreet. I am bi-curious, but would only consider it as a part of the fun if a couple I am with introduces it and/or expects it. Love giving oral pleasure to the women I am with in whatever ways she enjoys it most and for as long as she wants. I am long lasting and enjoy "playing" for extended periods of time.

My Ideal Person Mature women or couples interested in getting together with an honest, considerate, intelligent, mature guy that knows how to do what the woman or couple I am with enjoy most. It is all about respect, not being pushy, having fun, and doing what feels good mutually. Open to anything short of pain. Not looking for a committed relationship at this time, but not looking for "one and done" either.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Moody Blues, Eric Clapton, Fleetwood Mac, The Eagles,
The Band, James Taylor, Joan Jett

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Threesomes

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
A little of each

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Madonna or Joan Jett....Both look like they would be very
dominant and aggressive sexually

Have you ever had cybersex?:
Not yet, but I definitely want to try it.

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