I am a African American woman seeking someone patient, and not desperate. Someone thats smooth and steady, not in a hurry. Definitely if you are seeking a one night stand type of encounter, then I am not your girl. Not interested in fleeting connections. Good communication is essential. To start I am looking for intelligent sensual sexual chat, one on one, friendship, or just a boy toy. Clean cut, intellectual, no drugs, no smoking, interesting, kind, stable, consistent, excellence in bed. Mentally stable...Likes to give and receive oral and more. Someone that gets off on playing in intimate ways. Someone who is excited from exciting their partner. . Tease and tantalize me in uncommon ways.

My Ideal Person A pleaser...fun, relaxing, nice, discreet, intellectual, highly sexual. Welled skilled in bedroom arena. Has time to play on a regular basis. Someone fit enough. Someone that loves to explore the female anatomy. A sense of humor, but serious also. No one night stand, looking for consistent fun. I love sex, but with only one guy, I dont like to spread myself around and not interested in any man thats trying to get his private parts in any and everything. Particular is the key. Couples is a unexplored, yet intriguing idea, but the same rules apply....never tried that before...but slightly curious. Chemistry is super important, I dont like overly aggressive scary folks. Just nice enjoyment and smooth sailing....no madness.....no mess!

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
sex in the park at night in the rain.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, The middle of a park, An airplane, A dark back alley, A movie theatre, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, An elevator, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Spanking, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level

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