I am searching for the woman for whom all THIS is easy. By THIS , I mean the process of the physical and mental filtering on these dating sites . We all do it , "she looks like a gold digger" , " he doesnt look like he goes to the Gym very often" . Snap judge and click to the next profile. And some of the written profiles are no better, " i like long walks on the beach" we live in Arizona ... the only beaches we have are the ladies who took the parking spot i was waiting for, so i thought i would try a different approach. TRUTH and HONESTY. 1st Draft: i am really an average man , i have a job , a car , a place to live in which my parents do not reside. i hate doing dishes and laundry "necessary evils i suppose" . i dont go to clubs anymore , the crowd is too young. i drink socially , meaning a six pack may last 2 weeks, oh' i hate grocery shopping as well . i play golf , not really well , but that really is secondary to just hanging out with my buddies and talking crap to each other. i have really started to focus on the profiles on line that are more in tune with my moral and societal compass' instead of the really super attractive women on here, because at the end of the day i am still an average looking guy with hope that i will find a woman who will make me a better person just by being near her ... personality is at the top of the list , unique people interest me every time. So the really attractive guys on here ... rest easy i am not going to poach your trophy. lol Just so you know ... I AM pretty funny . I have excellent problem solving skills . i have a great family and really close friends that i have had for many years and they are STILL not sick of me ... go figure. First Date drinks ... outside .... by a fireplace (i wrote this in the winter ) .......now (summer ) i would go someplace cool

My Ideal Person i am attracted to women who have a slutty appearance

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