Looking for someone to have fun with in and out of the bedroom . its all about pleasing you I'll .... isn't that what most men forget or are too selfish to worry about

My Ideal Person I have a thing for Shorty's and green eyes but I really would like to find a women who likes her men a little more on the roughneck side a bit of an alpha.
I really enjoy lots of kissing,rubbing,teasing basically I love to make out like we did as kids when that was probably all you were going to get lol. I like women who are a bit submissive yet can also be aggressive at times would really like to get more into the Dom sub lifestyle would like to find a bit of a smartass who might need a spanking once in a while . I'm looking for just one hopefully one that fits all of this . definitely not into having sex with multiple partner's or men I am straight not even a little curious lol...