I have enjoyed the thrill of wearing feminine attire since my 12th birthday or so. It started when I borrowed my Mom's stockings and girdle, and the desire has never gone away. In between, I married and raised two ren and now that they are (thankfully) on their own, I have turned my attentions to the pleasures of being female. I seek to ccme as close as is possible-in appearance and in demeanor-to being a sensual woman, and there are some accessories that I simply can not do without- stockings, panties, high heeled shoes, and short skirts/dresses being at the top of the must have list. I love wearing pantyhose so much that even in the middle of a midwestern summer, I would never go without them. My legs cry out for the caress and feeling of Hanes ultra sheer. I am looking for several types of people. Fellow CDs who would like to share their journey and their experiences, for friendship and perhaps more. I am also looking for a certain type of man, who can appreciate the unique sensitivities of a girl who has to work a little harder to achieve the wonders of female beauty and who is masculine and sensitive all in one package. I would also love to meet women who are interested in a relationship with a crossdresser like myself I like people who are, most of all, honest, and I believe that all relationships start with building a foundation based on trust. Sex is great, of course, but it ought to follow two people getting to know and like each other first. When I am penetrated by a man, for example (perhaps my greatest pleasure) it is so much more satisfying when I know he cares about me. That brings me to my one dislike. Please guys, if you are responding to me, do not send crude or graphic pictures of yourself. It's not that I don't like that part of the human body. It's just that I don't want to see it until I really know you, and then all things are possible. Thanks for understanding, and I look forward to hearing from many of you. In friendship always Phoebe

My Ideal Person A true friend for me will always have two qualities that I think are essential:

Honesty-towards me, about yourself, and someone who is able to be open and candid and straight-forward. Deception and dishonesty just have no place in friendships.

Kindness-The world has too much cruelty and is overwhelmed with selfishness and ego. I look for people who have a caring heart, and get pleasure from looking out for the needs and wants of others. The greatest pleasure for me comes from making others happy.