And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to open. -- Anias Nin I'm taking some time to figure out where I'm headed in my exploration of sensuality. I think that polyamory is the lifestyle for me - which means more commitment than I had previously been looking for. It seems to me that our society gives us such mixed messages about accepting all parts of ourselves, and one of those is the acceptance of the self as a sexual being. I had tuned out that part of myself for several years. Quit listening to my body and my soul. Tried to fit into what I thought other peoples expectations were of me. Now I'm finding me. I've always been a bit of a free spirit ... beat of a different drummer ... but not enough that I fit with the "real" free spirits ... or the suits. So, I'm just me! I have a love of theatre, books and movies. I've been told I'm too honest and I share too much. I am immensely inquisitive and love to learn about new things.

My Ideal Person People who are real, don't play games and enjoy titillating conversation, laughter and companionship. I'm looking for honest and open relationships - willing to talk with each other about our other lovers, committed to trust and truth and being able to enjoy the relationship while it works for both or all of us.

I don't want the drama of sneaking around ... I don't do married unless your partner is joining us and my lovers know.

Someone who likes sex play and sees it as play, but also enjoys just touching and talking. Who knows that sensuality and eroticism are as important as the orgasms.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
No particular place, A bed, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, An airplane, A movie theatre, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, A store dressing room, An elevator, A hotel room, Anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Spanking, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Massage

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
No. I find enough "real" people to fantasize
about.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I have cybersex quite often.

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