I dont have a paid membership anymore Message or if you are generous gift me one Im always actively looking for play partnersim a ball of lint and wax and hair tangled up in string so first im pansexual when im attracted it doesnt matter if is some hot super model with big boobs a cute transexual or a 70 year old man attraction doesnt have boundaries im mostly looking for fun and trying to break the relationship addiction cycle but that doesnt mean im not up for a relationship the truth is ive done other dating sites and what ive found is its a waste of time to date people who are not aware up front of my sexuality and kinks i like kissing oral sex giving men and women sensual touching light bondage like choking and spanking i like to crossdress not all the time just occasionally and yes i like go out in public dressed i have satified and purely enjoyed sex with women or with men as a top my name is from a phase when i was just trying to get guysi love bottoming that doesnt mean thats all i love im a geek music board games comics starwars i used to have a profile pic with me in lingerie and a stromtrooper helmet as i said im a dork i also am not just defined by sex i crave it and love it but i also like to cook and play music and play or watch sports i guess what im saying is if you want me as a sex object im cool with that but just be honest with me