can't read emails here 8/6/18 My lady (in her late 40s) and I are actively searching for a guy - slight preference to bi or bi-curious, a bi or bi-curious woman, or couple, to join us. We're both sapiosexual and demisexual, much more interested in the per than age, race, or conventional standards of beauty. You don't have to be a great writer but please include some meaningful content if you contact us. On alt I'm pleasurebinder60. I wanted it to mean bound by pleasure rather than physical bindings. Pleasure includes mental compulsion, obsession, intrigue, tantalizing images projected into your soul, induced desire that makes you restless and helpless and brave. I don't bend you to my will, you bend yourself to your own revealed desire. If I became your #1 fan it was because I wanted to send you an email. The #1 fan is supposed to be able to do that, and in the past it worked. It quit working and they haven't responded to the report. So if I became your #1 fan please send me an email, maybe I'll be able to reply. If you don't get a reply it's because that stopped working, too. 8/6/18 It seems to be working now. I'm married, playing alone without permission. I'm a sensualist, not a hung hunky guy but good with my hands and a considerate lover. And as of Sept. 2017 getting into the best shape of my life. I want to have as much as possible to offer my lover and a fit, muscular body is part of that. Also have a self-deprecating sense of humor not displayed in this intro. Interested in learning about giving pleasure right up to the limit, holding you there until you whimper. I love to pleasure a woman with dildos and other toys. Find exactly the right size and texture, then learn the right rhythm, depth, angle, and twirl to maximize your pleasure. I'll leave the rest for chat or email since we want to get to know each other better, anyway. I'd much rather have mediocre sex with a friend than have great sex with a bunch of strangers. All responses are welcome.

My Ideal Person I have an intellectual streak so someone who is intelligent and not afraid to show it would be nice. A reader, fan of the cinema, with an artistic bent maybe, or just a kind, gentle person who doesn't mind that I might think too much. Not just about sex, someone who wants to be friends, have a relationship where we can go to movies, live shows, other fun activities including during the day because I'm retired and am free most days. Someone who can give or receive a warm smile, share a laugh at no one's expense, accept spontaneous fun and give it. I'll make you laugh when we're being playful and when we're supposed to be serious. I want hugs as well as wet, warm fun. 8/6/18 The above is modified for play partners for us as a couple, which is the only way we'll do anything. A decent person we both like and trust is what we're looking for. Also, cigarette smoke clings to everything. No judgment of smokers implied, but if you smoke we'll have to pass.