UPDATE 3/3/18... I have decided that monogamy is simply a pathway to cheating, jealousy and eventual heartache. I am looking for a primary partner who I will love, to stay deeply connected but never deny her the freedom and opportunity to have adventures with others. I are convinced this will sustain a healthy balance between stability and continued excitement in our relationship and the people we choose to include. I am here to find kinky, beautiful women who hold the same views on relationships and can go out, have fun, be honest and open and who enjoy having crazy sex without guilt or possessiveness. For me, it's not all about sex, but also making new connections and getting off on each others minds and peralities as much as making each other cum as many times as possible in one night. People who can relax, enjoying the moment, ditch the drama and know who they are as a per and sexual being are some of the most emotionally mature people I've ever met.. If any of this reates with you, lets talk, you never know what might happen.

My Ideal Person I try not to go into any relationship with a boat load of expectations. Each one is do different. I try not to paint myself into a corner.

I find that with each person I meet, there is a dynamic that can only happen between the two of us. Nobody else can replicate who we are together and I try not to replicate old relationships in my new or developing relationships.

So no expectations and no ideals for my next relationship.

I can say what attracts me. First and foremost, emotional intelligence. Has my partner come to grips with who they are? Are they comfortable being that person? Have they dealt with their overbearing mother, or abusive father or the loss of a friend or lover?

Not that I expect no baggage, but I do need someone that is introspective enough to learn from their hardships and mistakes and make them into something positive and trans-formative.

I'm a typical man and visual beauty means a lot to me. But I can meet the most stunning woman in the world and appreciate her. But if the personality, or intelligence, or mental stability is lacking the beauty just seems to disappear for me.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
James Taylor, Darius Rucker, Led Zep, Stones, P!NK

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I want to go to an orgy where everyone is wearing tuxedos
and evening gowns, the food is served on women's bodies
and everyone ends up naked and fucking all night long.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Emotional Inteligence

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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