I've been married for 13 years to woman that I love very much and do not want to hurt but I have to explore this other side of me that she is unaware of. I served for 22 years in the American army and am now i am disabled from the fun and games of the Iraqi war. My left leg is partially amputated and I'm missing three fingers from my right hand but I'm still able to manage. I'm looking for that special " teacher-maybe l lover" to give me that secret life that I always wanted to explore. I guess you could say like all of us, that I just need someone to love. I am open minded to most things and most people but discretion is always the better part of valour.

My Ideal Person I am looking for that special kind of woman, open minded and fun, free spirited but discreet. I like my women to be Sam girls who just want to have fun! I'm not looking for any permanent connections, but rather just good friends for chats, talking about things that interest us and concern us and affect us. I prefer women on a shorter side and this slimmer side but an average build is OK too.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
BEATLES, BOB SEGER, QUEEN, AC/DC, HEart, roxie, bNGLESA, MAILOW,
DIAMOND, SAIMON AND GARFUNCKEL

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I had for many years lived in the company of only men and always
been curious. My fantasies all revolve around someone
that is very feminine and very giirly, who likes to dress
pretty. I've always wanted to suck big cock, and have
her cum, in my mouth, in my face, and in my hand. I want to jerk-off
her and watch her orgasm. I mainly want to just play for HRS,
sucking and stroking her cock. It's all her cock and
balls and cum.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Leather, Latex, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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