FYI....I did'nt realize this untill i downgraded to standard membership so i know there's some out there who does'nt know either. The only way i or any other basic member can get in touch with someone is if they email us first, we can't wink back we can't view profiles we can only red to emails key word being "respond" we cannot initiate the contact. OK that being said i'm here to meet new people & make friends i hope, i dont judge anyone before i get to know them and expect the same, then we can go from there.I know theres as many different reas for being on one of these sites as there are people so i wont bore you with mine...unless you want to know.....lol....lets just say if you're on here also we are both lacking something in our lives & looking for something that we may or may not be able to define....thats why we're here. Well if you've made it this far into my

My Ideal Person Ok this is the hard part...lol...not sure what i'm looking for...know more what i'm not, i like to meet people & judge them on a person to person basis... i know this sounds crazy but hey we're all induviduals & i enjoy the process of getting to know someone...makes anything that comes after that much more enjoyable.....guess thats why i'm not a one night stand kind of person...not that i'm opposed to it....lol...just not what i'm looking for long term...well i guess i've lost everbodies attention by now....if you're still here give me a try, you never know.......lol