It's long overdue for a rewrite here, so here's the Feb 2024 version of me. I recently ended a fairly long and deeply involved FWB situation and I'm searching for friends that understand what that really means, both to have it and to lose it. LADIES: I'm really looking for ONE connection that understands. I'm not looking for sex right out of the gate here. It's a strange place to come to ask for something that isn't all about sex, but the name of the site says it all. We are Adults, I'm looking for a Friend, and I think when we Find each other, it will be amazing. COUPLES: I would like to maybe meet ONE couple here for something real and regular. I know that doesn't happen instantly, I understand and accept that some couples just want a one-off from a guy and then want to move on to another guy. I am just as excited to watch you two do your thing, or watch you do that thing with others. I don't need to play to enjoy, but if you include me or call me up from the bench as a backup player, you just may be happily surpised. I am a team player, easygoing and laid back and really want my partners to come first (yes, pun intended). Anyway, I hope there are still a few real folks on here, women that are actually women, couples that are actually couples. Just be honest and be real and I promise you that I will be the same. Happy 2024 everyone.

My Ideal Person Someone real, who can communicate and who can listen without judgment. Someone who understands that the first time of anything isn't perfect but can grow and learn from each interaction along the journey.