This is a little lengthy, but I hope interesting and worth reading. Please let me know what you think and ask any questions you might have. That's where this came from, questions I have been asked. I'm 5'2" with dark-blonde hair and eyes, born in 1960 and am Caucasian (Cajun/Dutch). I am a 38D bust size. I do not smoke but might have a drink sometime with dinner or to relax on a date. I do not use recreational drugs. I will use prescribed medication, including a narcotic if the doctor prescribes them. I get my enjoyment from more natural means, and want to be able to feel everything (and remember it). I'm not into pain, but sometimes love teasing and role play. I am married to a wonderful, understanding, non-jealous man that is limited due to health problems, so we agreed to expand our sexual borders, IF we find someone that is attractive, kind, understanding, considerate, discrete, and with mutual needs. Did I also mention, functional? Oral, hands, etc are nice, but if you can't finish where it belongs, you should talk to your doctor, there is help...but I'm not a the. One pet peeve, I would want you to finish IN me, not on me, so no, don't want you to pull out, or shoot it on my body, face or hair. I am straight and unprotected, I can't afford to take risks, so I don't date anyone that isn't committed to being only straight. I still have my period, so there are risks, but pregnancy risk is something I can survive, HIV isn't, and you can only be as clean as a current test. I can be a friend, but I'd be afraid to take it further. Not prejudiced, but I also have to avoid sexual contact with partners with features or skin tone that would be conspicuous if I ever happened to conceive. Things happen, and people love to judge and hate. I avoid those kind of people like the plague, but have to live in the world around me. It's a crazy world today, and we all have to be careful. If you claim to have a vas, please have papers to that effect. Because this is an extension of our marital sexual relations, I don't date alone or without my hubby. If we find we are all comfortable with each other, in time, that might be more flexible, but gossip is a dainty morsel eaten with great relish, so have to be discrete. He does NOT participate, so one on one, but he will always have to be there in public, and, for safety, we always meet publicly for the first meeting, usually for dinner or lunch, so we can talk and get to know each other. We are both very straight, and I'm not interested in a one-night (or day) stand. I have never been in a threesome or group sex. We would have to talk about that, seriously. I am being as honest and upfront as I know how to be. I'm human and I love sex, and that's why we're on here, but it's just not as good if it's two people just trying to get off. I'm not a cum bank to leave a deposit in and go, and you're not a warm blooded masturbation toy. I'm a woman, and you're a guy, with feelings and the best sex comes from when two people sincerely try to make it the best sex their partner ever had, so I never hold back and would not want you to, if we wind up going there. I don't meet many people, but if and when I do, I want it to be awesome for both of us. Not gonna run away with you. We have a friend we are seeing now, but things happen, so tomorrow might be a different story. I'm not looking to fall in love or change my life, I have the man I love, but it's good if you do care for each other. It gives meaning to what you are doing, and feels just as good and usually a whole lot better. If you are over 7 1/2" or bigger around than a golf ball, you would probably tear me, because I'm small. I have met guys as young as 19 and as old as 65, and some young guys, especially service men are more mature than the older guys and some older guys will never grow up. Arrogant, conceited, and selfish guys, and obsessive horn dogs are a huge turn off. If you paw me openly in public, it's over. In areas with smaller towns, everyone knows you, and they have friends and relatives you might not even know that know you or know about you. If it's 30 miles from where we live, or in another state, more things are possible, of course. Not gonna run off with anyone, and being friends with my hubby is a really big indication that this will work. Not into drama, not after a sugar daddy and not a sugar mama, for sure. Not a home wrecker, so please no crazy wives or gfs coming after me with an axe , knife or gun. lol/ Yes, I've had wives and gfs contact me, not a good thing. I have two of the most popular profiles on the site, and I get many, many messages from guys all wanting the same thing. Can you guess what that might be? I'm not what I used to be. I'm not a supermodel by far, not a twenty something...nothing special, so if you're looking for a beauty queen or olympic hopeful, sorry wrong number. My cover photo was taken during Hurricane Katrina, a little over 10 years ago. Everyone seems to like it, so I leave it there. I do have other photos. I'm not a slut and can't be since I am unprotected from STDs and can't use birth control. If I find someone that I think actually respects me as a per and a woman and is willing to be a genuine friend, then we can talk about meeting and maybe talk on the phone. If we meet and I think I can trust that per to be a continuing part of my life, and I think we can have as much affection as lust, then we might wind up making love. Obviously I have to be really sure that any partner I have will have no STD when we start and as we continue. We're adults and if we're having unprotected sex, we all know there may be risks like pregnancy. I try to avoid dangerous times, but as long as I have a period, I am fertile...more so at certain times, but there is a risk. Even those that can use protection are not 100% safe. Tubes can become untied, a vas can reverse and doesn't always work. It only takes ONE sperm, although a few help. Condoms break and are only like 80 - 90% effective at best, some of the time, they are worthless. Like playing Russian Roulette with 1 bullet and 20 empty chambers. The Diaphragm is even riskier, the IUD isn't 100%, and gave me toxemia which almost killed me, and I know several women who got pregnant while taking the pill. Some medications, some foods (like gfruit) make the pill not work. All said, the per I have sex with, has to care enough to take me as I am. If anything happens, I would never hold them responsible because I also agreed to it. Does that help clarify things? If you still want to go one with this, let me know and we'll talk about it.

My Ideal Person Real, std and drama free. Considerate and able to function. Let's be friends and enjoy being together. Please no one timers, I'm not a one night rodeo. Not a sugar mama.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
My hottest fantasy is for my husband to be watching while
I'm have really good six with a man who knows how to please
a woman.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Receiving Oral Sex, Voyeurism

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Dean Martin, Patrick Swayze, Tom Selleck, and Randy Orton.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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