Kindness is magic, & its what I always try to provide. Not looking to change my status or yours, I'm an honest man missing kissing, cuddling, passion & sex. Everyone calls me an easy-going guy. My many interests include dancing, art, music, photography, reading, writing, gardening and traveling. Young for my age, I manage to keep all that going, and I'll want to join you in whatever you like to do. Looking for a friend as well as a lover, I'm gentle and concerned about the feelings of the people I'm with. Retired in 2019 from corporate life in Chicago & Austin, I stay healthy by eating well and exercising regularly, especially aerobics, biking, swimming, hiking and weight lifting. I'm creative; my degree was in the arts. Intelligent and broadly knowledgeable about many subjects, I love informed discussions regarding any topic. I'll be thrilled if our friendship includes talks about our interests. Safe sex only: My tool is above average; the only condoms that fit me are XL size (mostly because my dick is extra thick, but its also a bit too long for the regular wrappers). In the bedroom, I'm intensely passionate, starting with tender caresses. I give a great massage. I'll always make sure you feel comfortable and secure. You can tell me what to do or follow my lead. I'm vaccinated.

My Ideal Person All kinds of girls (I seek the person underneath). I hope you and I will feel a connection and grow a long term relationship (but one night stands are fine).
If you're not attached and you later find a prospective full time partner, I'll get out of your way and encourage you to go for him.
During the warmer months, I always wish I had a swimming partner (3-4 evenings per week). Chance for romance!
Passionate embrace is wonderful if that's all you feel safe doing. Skinny dipping would be a fun when possible. From just cuddling to conventional sex or some experimentation, its all good.
Discretion is a must; honesty preferred. I'm not a sugar daddy but I love women with all my heart and soul. Lets be close friends as well as lovers.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Rescuing women in distress and making love them before
and after the rescue.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Role Playing, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Ability to be discreet, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, A little of each

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Just with porn stars who turned on.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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