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MASSAGE IS FOREPLAY & BUILDS TRUST!
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MASSAGE IS FOREPLAY & BUILDS TRUST! Massage therapy history dates back thousands of years to ancient cultures that believed in it's medical benefits. The first written records of massage therapy are found in China and Egypt The practice of using touch as a healing method derives from customs and techniques rooted in ancient history. Civilizations in the East and West found that natural healing and massage could heal injuries, relieve pain, and prevent and cure illnesses. What’s more, it helped reduce stress and produce deep relaxation. Massage therapy began as a system of natural healing. However, cultural shifts rendered it a disreputable form of indulgence for extensive periods of history. In ancient Rome; the wealthy received massages in their homes by personal physicians. The recipients would first bathe themselves and then receive a full body massage to stimulate circulation and loosen their joints. Massages typically included oils to benefit the skin. A Happy Ending was part of this culture for quite some time! Massage in general endured a reputation as unsavory with the advent of massage parlors where the practice became associated with the sex trade. MASSAGE IS FOREPLAY & BUILDS TRUST: In my humble opinion; Massage is the Touch of Comfort: offering both physical relaxation and destressing and an emotional support with a release of stress thru sensuality. A CARING PERSONALITY is part of a good massage. Humans in general, have the unique ability to perceive touch as either hostile or intimate; so, generally, a massage’s therapeutic effect is the consequence of a "hands-on" treatment which is judged to be both desirable and beneficial. Some women take a long time to warm-up; thus, foreplay is very important to satisfying a woman. Sometimes it can take up to 20-min before a women can be sufficiently aroused--a classic indication is her “wetness” down there! PERCEPTIVE UNDERSTANDING: massage is based on a perceptive understanding of the sense of touch. That is, a massage giver’s gentleness creates a feeling of safety with the receiver. Additionally, the massage giver’s intuitive caring and kindness ultimately creates a mutual trust between massager and receiver. Thus, a “passion to please” will be reciprocated when the roles of the massage giver and receiver switch. Without trust it is very difficult to experience either the therapeutic aspect or uninhibited sensuality. My massages are loosely based on the art of Tantric Massage; an ancient art that dates back to the KamaSutra which is; an ancient Hindu text widely considered to be the original work on human sexual behavior. In India--some 30 to 40 years ago; Tantric massages were performed by women on men in a way to appease the male sexual appetite and curb the population--it actually was quite succesful in certain parts of the country. However, as anything good--it has been perversed. Believe it or not, Hermaphrodites in India are some of the best Tantric teachers--I learned from one. A Hermaphrodite is not to be confused with a Tranvestite; a true hermaphrodite--looks just like a women in all ways--with one exception--her clitoris is a phallus--or in other words a fuly grown and functional penis with a vaginal canal below. She is able to orgasm like a women and orgasm like a man--she can<b> bear </font></b>!!!... Although, Indian OB/GYN doctors will not deliver offspring. I just realized, how much I have digressed! Yoni Massage: At a young age I learned how to do a Yoni massage and over the years I have become quite good at it. The key to giving a Yoni massage is trust, kindness, respect and gentleness. It is an extremely exhilirating and relaxing experience. It is actually quite difficult to do and requires a lot of self control and attention to detail on part of the giver. The end result is not intended to be an orgasm; however, if an orgasm occurs it is considered a special benefit. By the way, the Yoni massage also involves an anal massage depending on the comfort and trust level of the receiver. It is very important to know--there can never be any penetration; that is, intercourse, during or after a Yoni massage. It will desensitize the vaginal walls and leave you feeling tired and tense. Most men say they are the "real man" or they are great in "bed"; all that is subjective-because-without "passion" & "confidence" a woman gets bored easily! I have learned the art of Tantric Massage in the far east and probably have over 30-years experience giving soothing/flowing massages! I am very much looking forward to giving you this relaxing, de-stressing and very pleasurable expereince! Massage offers both a therapeutic aspect and a sensual balance; frankly, I find this much more gratifying than the actual physical act of sexual intercourse. |
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