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Adventures in Dominance and Submission
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Adventures in Dominance and Submission Recently I begun to experiment and venture into my dominant side. It is an awkward thing for me, the natural nurturer and warmth giver. It requires a certain level of selfishness that I am not used to enjoying. Not saying that it is strictly a selfish thing because that couldn't be further from the truth. To be a Dominant you have to respect the gift of submission and the trust that your sub places in you. My boy that I play with is delightful. I cannot sing his praises enough. He is so open to experimentation and testing his own limits. More importantly he is excellent with communication, letting me know when things are approaching his thresholds and when things need to back down. It allows me to feel more comfortable in exploring more hard play with him as he craves. I had read and watched things about CBT (Cock & Ball Torture) but until now I'd never truly explored it till now. Like many other women I was always told that men's testicles were as fragile as hollow egg shells and so on and so forth. As such I was hesitant to engage in the binding and clipping and light slapping and percussion at first, timid and too light. But with reassurance from him I was able to relax and begin to sense his limits, read his body language and decipher the moans and whimpers. It's empowering to know that the pleasure and pain of another is in your hands, that you can take them to the highest highs and back them off again before they peak, prolonging the intensity of pleasure. Knowing that that person places that sort of trust in you to allow you to make them vulnerable. While there is a certain level of selfishness involved but at the same time it takes a great deal of selflessness as well, a desire to please and bring remarkable highs to your partner has to be there as well. I'm looking forward to enjoying more delightful times with my sub and learning more and more of his body and desires. |
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3/30/2009 4:30 pm |
cool
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Not in to the Dom and Sub aversion. I figure, that whoever or which ever wants to take charge......I'm in. I may not want to try it, but it's everyone's choice. If a man want's his "boys" tied up and ......? So it is said, so shall it be done....LOL Hope your man enjoyed it, and you both get something out of it. I'm just random blogging tonite, so don't mind me. LMAO 'Tis easier to be intelligent and act dumb.......than it is to be dumb and try to act intelligent !!
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3/30/2009 6:22 pm |
I been a dominant person all my life , I had train several subs , but female only , so I can not intelligently give you any opinion on the D/female -s/male relation , but I must pint out as you stated TRUST is a must and the exercise of a lot of common sense , since some of the actions if not being carefully preform could lead to some serious health problems . You need to educate yourself in how adverse health wise somethings can be even though they seem to be pleasurable . The more you push the limits , the more aware you should be of the consequences . Remember ... you are responsible for your sub .
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3/30/2009 7:02 pm |
hi im krisxia i hope we can be friends i dont have an pics cause it is pending for now nice cool.......
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3/30/2009 7:24 pm |
nice one i love it get bounce
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3/30/2009 7:41 pm |
nice it's great i love it bounce out
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Master8T2 - Oh yes I did my research thoroughly before we played, reading of the possible dangers and health hazards. I always do as such before exploring new frontiers. After all ignorance is not attractive while inexperience can be overcome easily with patience and practice. However I am finding that no amount of reading can truly replace actually engaging in the activities and learning your partner's cues. I adore the way that he and I can talk freely and openly about what interests both of us and where our limits lay before we ever reach the 'play' stage. Also I am not one of those scary German Mistress chicks you see in the films. LOL! I am more into the subtle seduction and speaking low to have them strain to hear you, focusing their attention on you fully. I figure if you have to scream to be heard you've already lost control.
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I love CBT, nail and wax torture. I've long given up my sensual side for the sadistic when I'm in the dungeon with my pet/slave. Glad you found the pleasure in the lifestyle! o-o?*
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Yes certainly sounds like a new part of you is emerging xx I havetreid the dom role..but for me it just never worked.. sub/slut is for me x Can you keep a secret ?  
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3/31/2009 3:25 am |
nice it's look greats
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3/31/2009 5:40 am |
drop buy to say hi,,,wants to be your friend
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3/31/2009 10:33 am |
Being in charge of another person is such a rush. I've fantasied about it before, but I don't know if I have the guts to actually do it. lol I  my friends!! 
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3/31/2009 2:20 pm |
wow great
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