Reset Password
If you've forgotten your password, you can enter your email address below. An email will then be sent with a link to set up a new password.
Cancel
Reset Link Sent
If the email is registered with our site, you will receive an email with instructions to reset your password. Password reset link sent to:
Check your email and enter the confirmation code:
Don't see the email?
  • Resend Confirmation Link
  • Start Over
Close
If you have any questions, please contact Customer Service
My Blog
 
Welcome to my blog!
Keywords | Title View | Refer to a Friend |
Getting tired of cock shot's and cocky replies.
Posted:Jun 21, 2010 4:30 pm
Last Updated:Apr 14, 2018 12:54 am
2045 Views

Ladies tell me do you ever get tired of cocky guys sending you cocky replies with cock shots attached?

This is a reply I recently received.

Hey!

I'm a nice guy, good looking, 39 yrs, giant long dick(8 inches), can cum many times. I know how to use my tongue and please a lady. To be frank, I'm simply really good looking and looking to have fun/sex. I'm pretty easy going and sexy as hell. No strings attached. I'd like to see if your husband needs me to take care of you...

Well Mrs. Strawberycouple can only manage to stammer a W.T.F. this guy has some serious ego issues and Mrs. Strawberycouple feels it's her duty and responsibility to knock his ego down a notch or two

This was Mrs. Strawberycouples humble reply.

Hello.

When we ask people to tell us a bit about themselves we are looking for personality qualities first, then perhaps stats and relationship status. What you think your sexual attributes and abilities are, quite frankly are trivial. Some absolutely amazing sexual partners are also the most amazing assholes. Given the nature of our play personality is of the up most importance. One could very well be God's gift to women but if he is unable to accept a no graciously or is an aggressive individual then there is no room for him within our play. Honestly in my personal experience men who boast of their sexual greatness are usually the worst in bed. One is rarely as good as they think they are.

We are a mature swing couple and trust me the Lady of this couple is an extremely confident woman who know what she wants and is more then willing to tell a male partner what she wants, which is rarely what a man thinks it is. Males sometimes fail to realize all women are different and what gives one pleasure may completely turn another off. Further more, why do men feel it necessary to tell me the size of their penis? Honestly 8 inches is only slightly above average and as an experienced woman in the swing lifestyle I have had good sex with men who have a 4 inch penis just as good as a 10 inch penis and on the flip side I have had terrible sex from both sizes equally as well.

If you are still interested in perhaps knowing more about us then please tell me a bit about you and not what you believe your sexual attributes to be. I apologize if I am coming off as a bitch which I'm sure I am. However our ad was written in an adult manner to indicate we are a mature adult swing couple and I am growing weary of receiving so many duplicate emails from men along with cock shots. Let me put it this way, would you think I was less of a Bitch if I told you I had amazing tit's? Which by the way I do

I really do want you to respond back. I am sending this to all men who send me original replies like yours, the ones who respond back with a mature response instead of getting all pissed off are the men we want to play with.

Hope to hear from your big head and not the little one
3 Comments
The Married Cheat, Outright Delete or Possible Treat.
Posted:Jun 10, 2010 6:01 pm
Last Updated:Oct 22, 2017 10:09 pm
2103 Views

Why is it that married cheaters are crucified on here? What gives any of us on here the moral right to cast stones when we ourselves live in sexual glass houses?

Have you ever thought to ask someone why they have the need to cheat? Not all cheaters have control over their life circumstances. Like the 60 year old man who's wife of 40 years lost her sexual desire 22 years a go to a hysterectomy. He stays because he loves his wife, she has never worked so he financially supports her but no sex for 22 years oh and did I mention he loves her, what a cheating bastard hey? Ask yourself could you go 22 years without sexual contact? Then there is the woman who married the man of her dreams 20 years ago he fell from a roof putting up Christmas lights and is paralyzed from the neck down, she stayed, she loves him. She is his caretaker, she feeds him, she bathes him, she wipes his ass and cleans the bag that holds his urine, oh did I mention she loves him, What a cheating Bitch hey? A vibrator doesn't kiss you, caress you or run fingers over your breasts, now ask yourself are these touches you could give up for the rest of your life at the age of 19?

The cheaters I can't stand are the the ones within couples who say they only play as a couple in their profiles. The partners in these couples have no reason to cheat, why would they their partner let them fuck whom ever they want. These are the cheaters you should be stoning, their partner lets them fuck other people yet they still feel the need to fuck around behind their partners back.

So maybe all you morally holier then thou couples on here should hang onto your stones until you have the details and ponder what it might be like to walk a mile in someone else's shoes.

Attitudes on here towards cheaters remind me of the Salem which hunts, so many persecuted yet so many innocent.

We all claim to have open minds but do we really?
0 Comments
Why is the term Gang Bang seen as negative.
Posted:Jun 7, 2010 8:26 pm
Last Updated:Jun 24, 2011 6:45 am
2258 Views

I have always found the term Gang Bang to be negative and or derogatory in nature. The term Gang Bang is often used with terms such as Cum Dumpster, Cum Queen or Cum . All terms no Lady Lifestyler would want used to describe them.

Is A lady who involves herself in a Gang Bang all that Trashy? How many of us Lady Lifestylers are involved with Gang Bangs on a regular bases. How many of us Lady lifestylers fail to recognize or admit that the activities we often not only engage in but enjoy as a true Gang Bang because of the negativity around the term.

I have been reflecting on my usual activities of choice when at a Play Party or DnD. This is my conclusion, I most definitely often engage in Gang Bangs. Does this make me Trashy, some will say yes. For me it merely means I have a very strong Libido and require multiple partners to satisfy my sexual needs.

As I have gotten older I have gained the sexual confidence to be open and honest with myself as to what my sexuality is, as to what my sexual needs are and what sexual activities will meet those needs. So what am I? I'm a openly Bi-sexual lady with a large sexual appetite that requires multiple partners or yes a Gang Bang to meet my sexual needs.



1 comment
Why is the term Gang Bang seen as negative.
Posted:Jun 7, 2010 8:09 pm
Last Updated:Oct 21, 2017 12:50 am
2074 Views

I have always found the term Gang Bang to be negative and or derogatory in nature. The term Gang Bang is often used with terms such as Cum Dumpster, Cum Queen or Cum . All terms no Lady Lifestyler would want used to describe them.

Is A lady who involves herself in a Gang Bang all that Trashy? How many of us Lady Lifestylers are involved with Gang Bangs on a regular bases. How many of us Lady lifestylers fail to recognize or admit that the activities we often not only engage in but enjoy as a true Gang Bang because of the negativity around the term.

I have been reflecting on my usual activities of choice when at a Play Party or DnD. This is my conclusion, I most definitely often engage in Gang Bangs. Does this make me Trashy, some will say yes. For me it merely means I have a very strong Libido and require multiple partners to satisfy my sexual needs.

As I have gotten older I have gained the sexual confidence to be open and honest with myself as to what my sexuality is, as to what my sexual needs are and what sexual activities will meet those needs. So what am I? I'm a openly Bi-sexual lady with a large sexual appetite that requires multiple partners or yes a Gang Bang to meet my sexual needs.



1 comment
Are Lifestyle ladies slut's?????
Posted:May 31, 2010 11:15 am
Last Updated:Oct 21, 2017 12:48 am
2175 Views

I was recently at a social event for people in the Lifestyle where I had an interesting conversation with a group of ladies.

Some of these ladies were experienced veterans of the lifestyle, some were new just dipping their toes in to test the waters, some were married, some were single, some were older and some were younger but all had very strong opinions. One of the younger, single ladies who is new to the lifestyle with no real experience asked us slightly older veterans if we would agree that all women in the Lifestyle were Slut's. Well as you can imagine this question sparked a heated catty bitch fest. As I watched the bickering unfold, I stepped back and took time to reflect on my personal thoughts as to what I would like to be considered as.

These are my thoughts on the subject. I wouldn't call myself a , Why, because 's get paid for it, I give it up for free

The original meaning of Slut dates back to 1402 meaning a women who was untidy, dirty and slovenly. However the word Slut has evolved with the times and is now used to describe a woman who is promiscuous. The word Promiscuous means to have sex with many partners. So having said that I would not be defined as a Slut by 1402's definition as I am neither dirty,untidy nor slovenly. However I do meet the criteria of today's definition of the word Slut as I have to be honest I totally meet the definition of promiscuous by having many sexual partners.>>!

So my finale thoughts. Who gives a fuck what others think! To consider yourself a Slut is a state of mind. I'm proud to call myself a Bi-sexual Slut! At least I'm an honest, clean, safe Bi-sexual Slut who's better half knows everything.
5 Comments
Sexy kisses.
Posted:Mar 21, 2010 4:17 pm
Last Updated:Oct 21, 2017 12:51 am
1766 Views

Recently Mr and Mrs Strawberycouple attended the March social for Capital sex, hosted by Kitty n BigGuy. While at the social Mrs Strawberycouple had the delightfully naughty fortune to kiss it up with several lovely ladies and friendly gents. Mmmmm delightful indeed.

So my questions go out to all the lovely bi ladies. Who has a sexier kiss men or women and why. Second question, lip bites or no lip bites?

Personally me the missus, loves bites both giving and receiving.
0 Comments
Bi or Bi-curious? That is the question
Posted:Mar 4, 2010 3:40 pm
Last Updated:Oct 22, 2017 10:10 pm
1990 Views

This goes out to all the confidently open bi ladies.

When do we as openly bi ladies say enough is enough? When do we say we are no longer going to entertain bi-curious single women or couples with a bi-curious female? All you so called bi-curious ladies, get your deal together. Your either bi or your not, there is no bi-curious.

I used to believe it was my duty as an openly bi lady to help others in the sisterhood free them selves from the confines of the closet. However I am now seriously of the opinion, if you call your self bi-curious, your on your own. If a woman is above a certain age and all of a sudden thinks hmmmm I'm curious and want to try some girl on girl she is either trying to save a marriage, spice up a marriage or trying to please a male partner. It doesn't really matter the reasons you are calling yourself bi-curious, the chances are your not bi at all your simply bored with your current sexual situation.

As a confident and openly bi lady I can say I never called myself bi curious. I simply called myself bi inexperienced pryor to my first girl on girl romp. I'm honest enough to say that long before I lost my virginity I was sexually attracted to both men and women. I in fact was bisexual before I was old enough to understand what bisexual was.

I don't mean for this to come off as a rant. Umm, well yes I do because ranting amuses me and in this moment I feel like being amused.
0 Comments

To link to this blog ([blog strawberycouple]) use [blog strawberycouple] in your messages.

  strawberycouple 53M/51F
53/51 C
June 2010
Sun Mon Tue Wed Thu Fri Sat
    1
 
2
 
3
 
4
 
5
 
6
 
7
2
8
 
9
 
10
1
11
 
12
 
13
 
14
 
15
 
16
 
17
 
18
 
19
 
20
 
21
1
22
 
23
 
24
 
25
 
26
 
27
 
28
 
29
 
30